To my INDIAN Parents.....

I do not when u have daughters...

U proudly tell to others...

I have angels....

I have GOD’s gift....

But when she is in the marriage age....

The mouth which used to praise her...

Is now telling HAIYO EN VAYITULE NERUPPE KATTI ALEYIRENE...

R u luking her as ur stomach fire ?

Why ?

I still dun understand...

Why u all looking daughters...

As a burden for u...

When the time cums....

Yes u have been showering her....

With love, protection and care....

But ur daughter not only need those things....

When they are in the state of matured...

Their real needs are...

To have freedom of choosing her....

Own path of life....

To have freedom to make decision.....

In her life again....

Doesnt mean that u need to let her just like that...

But at least...

Give her chance to.....

To breathe the air of freedom...

Since from small...

U have been telling....advising...cultivating...

The values that a gal shud have...

Including discipline, respect, adekem odukkem all...

But have u ever taught...

On how to be...

A strong woman ?...

A dedicated woman ?

A very determined person ?

A very independent woman ?...

Due to ur hasty decision....

To find maple.....

U go for Kili josiyem....

And now sure go for Paul Octopus.....

But have u heard....

The crying....

The suffering....

Her tears...

Which rolls down in her cheek.....

Remember...

She has been with you for years...

Ma Indian gals...

Will neva eva follow any guy....

Whom they neva know, meet at all...

But they follow ur advise...

Thinking your adVISE is meant to add WISE for her....

Just coz ur tears has been replaced by their tears....

Pls let ur daughters...

To live on their own way....

Let them get to know with you maple first...

Let the tree of understanding grow between them....

Coz that is the basic for the yield of sweet life fruits later.....

Im telling this because....

I too have sisters...

I too have female frens....

As what Vadivelu said

Most of todays MAPPU

Tend to give ur ponnu APPU...

At the end,

Eyes of ur DEAR....

Will be pond of TEAR...

Due to stress KICK..

She wud fall in SICK....

And ur DAUGHTER...

Will be regular customer for DOCTOR

When u were initially PATIENT....

She wudnt have turned into a PATIENT...

Think it....

Cheers,

Theeban